What is mediation?
Family mediation provides a supportive space for families to talk, listen, and find solutions during challenging times. Rather than focusing on conflict, mediation encourages cooperation and understanding, helping families move forward in a way that feels fair, respectful, and future-focused.
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It's a structured process designed to help separating couples and families resolve disagreements around children, finances, and future arrangements. It offers a more cost-effective, time-efficient alternative to legal proceedings, while keeping decision-making firmly in the hands of those involved.
Is mediation right for me?
Family mediation may be right for you if you want to resolve issues fairly and constructively, without the stress, delay, and expense of going to court. It works best when both parties are willing to engage in open discussion and focus on practical solutions.
Mediation can help if you’re looking to make arrangements for children, agree on finances, or plan next steps following separation or change. It offers a confidential, neutral space where your voice is heard and decisions remain in your control.
While mediation isn’t suitable for every situation, many families find it to be a calmer, more flexible, and more cost-effective way to move forward.
Must I try mediation before applying to the courts?
In most family cases, you are required to consider mediation before applying to the court. This usually involves attending a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM).
A MIAM is not mediation itself. It is a confidential, one-to-one meeting with a qualified family mediator who will explain how mediation works, assess whether it is suitable for your situation, and give you the opportunity to ask questions. Attendance at a MIAM does not commit you to continuing with mediation.
If mediation is appropriate and both parties are willing, sessions can then be arranged. If mediation is not suitable, or if one or both parties choose not to proceed, the mediator can sign the relevant court form to confirm that mediation has been considered.
There are some circumstances where a MIAM is not required, such as cases involving domestic abuse or urgency. Where court is necessary, guidance will be provided on next steps.